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Cake day: June 6th, 2023

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  • So I’m in my 30s and from the UK so maybe not the most relevant person to get this sort of advice from.

    It sounds like you’re not in love anymore and have very little in common. If you have no strong reasons to stay together (financial, children, housing etc) then you could have an amicable divorce and maybe gain some more freedom to explore and enjoy yourself.


  • It depends what your anxiety is driven by. Social anxiety is mostly the fear of being driven out of the group, which would evolutionarily lead to death. You’d be better with social interaction games or multiplayer ones to connect with more people in a safe environment.

    Generalised anxiety where you’re hyper aware of every risk and on edge all the time expecting something bad to happen, horror games might work with desensitisation though often in horror the bad things do happen and you just happen to survive by running away or fighting back which is probably not the most helpful thing for anxiety.

    Specific fears around ghosts - play FEAR and shoot ghosts. Specific fears around zombies play resident evil, probably the remake of 4, and shoot zombies. Existential dread about what makes you human and the existence of consciousness and souls, play SOMA (has a mode where the enemies don’t insta death you now so you can experience the story and the incredible locations), probably won’t make it less scary but is a great game.







  • Vaping is safer than cigarettes, it’s still bad and we don’t know how bad it is long term but it is safer than smoking. It’s better to just stop completely using a stop smoking service to get alternative nicotine products if that’s available. If the person doesn’t want to stop then you’re unlikely to be able to make them however a vape might be able to replace it with something better. Other products to look at are patches, gum, lozenges and inhalators which can be useful in quitting.

    In summary smoking and vaping are both bad but smoking is worse. Better off just quitting if possible, if not go for the vape.







  • Tried the JAR as with most things it slaps but it does lack the handling and capacity to deal with the swarming zombies easily. The grenade launcher was surprisingly effective against everything up to the tripods.

    The adjudicator seemed to work well for my buddy.

    I’m wondering how well the arc thrower would work. The auto aim and stun would be really handy against the jetpack dudes. Gonna try that next.