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Cake day: February 26th, 2025

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  • I just played through Portal 2 a couple of weeks ago, for nostalgia’s sake.

    “Those of you who volunteered to be injected with praying mantis DNA, I’ve got some good news and some bad news. Bad news is, we’re postponing those tests indefinitely. Good news is, we’ve got a much better test for you: fighting an army of mantis men! Pick up a rifle and follow the yellow line. You’ll know when the test starts.”





  • I think the biggest channels I watch have under 4 million subscribers, and most of my channels have less than a million. I’ve never watched the big channels, so I don’t really care.

    A while back, YT asked me about turning on my watch history, but I didn’t know it was off. I don’t know what that was about–I think they changed something–but my knee-jerk reaction is to NOT do what they want me to do, so I left it off. Now I just watch whatever is new from my subscriptions, and don’t have any suggestions cluttering my front page, which is a much better way to use YT, imo. So, thanks, YT.




  • The youngest Boomer is 61. There are plenty of 61-year-olds I’d vote for, and older. For instance, I’d still vote for Bernie–just get him in office, it doesn’t matter how long he lives. Conversely, there are plenty of under-40-year-olds I would not vote for. The problem has nothing to do with age. There are a lot of 20-something MAGAs.


  • It helps to acknowledge their issue first, maybe commiserate, and only share something directly related. Then you need to immediately hand the conversation back to them, and listen some more.

    Don’t say, “Oh, that reminds me of something…” and then talk about seeing a dog on your most recent three-week summer vacation to France.



  • One of the bigger lies we tell each other is that “people never change”. Not true at all, we change constantly, one universal constant is change. I wouldn’t spend my remaining years tied to someone I wasn’t interested in.

    I’m 60, and I’ve been divorced for 15 years, the same amount of time I was married. In the past 15 years, I had a girlfriend for a few years, and that was fine. But, really, I’m much happier without anyone in my life, that’s what works best for me, now. It’s just too much effort and compromise for the benefits.

    Also, this may be hard to hear, but 56 is not “middle age”, you should use that fact as motivation. Keep exercising, and eating right. Take the prescriptions and supplements you need to take, don’t stubbornly deny that your body is aging, and accept you need to change your habits to keep up with it.