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Cake day: February 27th, 2025

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  • Not a similar situation, but still possibly close enough. I am very hairy and lived in a country with virtually no body hair. The little that men had at my age (little younger than you), they would shave away in shame.

    90% of people would find me disgusting, maybe 95%. I felt shunned and hideous. People called me monkey or gorilla and did little dances when I would walk by.

    Then I found out that there were 5, maybe 10 percent that either didn’t mind or actively liked my body hair. It’s not a lot of people, but it’s enough to surround yourself with love and affection.

    A lot of women love effeminate men, or “soft” men. Maybe a lot more don’t, and a lot are probably just afraid of liking something they are not supposed to like. But you’ll certainly find enough of the right kind for you to enjoy your life just the way you are.

    Just make sure you don’t carry any of that bigoted hate you grew up with, with you. You and everyone you love deserve better.