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Cake day: August 23rd, 2023

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  • So while I don’t fit into this threads main topic…

    I’m a gay male furry, disabled, who is currently (and for 4 years now) in a master/pet relationship with another fur, who is dating another fur; and I have a high sex drive, even in my 30s, but both of the other furs are ace. Master isn’t 100% ace but it’s rare and fleeting, and being long distance doesn’t help. He’s also likely autistic, and touching is fine but it seems like prolonged affection is annoying to him. He’s kinda aloof and doesn’t take cues, so we are (gently) blunt with each other. He’s sweet as hell, and cares about me a lot, which is how the fwb situation turned into this relationship thing - I found out I’m somewhat demisexual in the process.

    What you can take from, what I think, is one of the weirdest relationship situations ever explained, is that it is possible to find someone who cares for and loves you, and even maybe craves you sexually, and it can work out just fine. I am certain that I bug master with lots of my advances, and I’m usually left on my own, but he’s very desirable from my perspective, and he does try to incorporate a few of my kinks when we are together physically, even if he’s not in the mood. It’s still pretty fun. The fact that he allows me to find others to play with is nice too, though I’ve only taken that offer with one other fur since we became a thing. A similar situation could open up more opportunities for you.

    Dating, relationships, sex is all weird. It doesn’t need to be this rigid bunch of expectations. As long as both/all are happy and having fun, not hurting anyone (without consent~), fuck the norms and standards.

    Also lol, I’ve dated exclusively from the furry dating pool onward after my first bf, and that population isn’t large. I’m gay (well, homoflexible, but) so that cuts the applicants even more. Then I’m disabled, and so that gets cut even further, since I don’t think most would want my baggage, help me with daily assistance, etc. Yet I’m still with someone… It’s totally possible. Just got to try and connect with people. I met my now-master playing Halo CE almost 20 years ago now. My ex, same thing. All my partners except one were gaming friends either irl or long-distance from the start. The people you may know right now might also be looking for someone. Just need to look, open up.

    (high-five for social anxiety too)